Thirty years ago a friend offered some great insight.
God-given gifts are very negative when not harnessed by the Holy Spirit.
Example:
The gift of discernment from the Lord is a critical and judgmental spirit when not harnessed by the Holy Spirit.
When I hear myself sounding critical, I take a step back and recognize I have left out the Holy Spirit.
God gives many gifts, but Christians, remember, they sour when not harnessed to the Holy Spirit. Bow the knee to Him. Let Him use you in might ways, positive ways, for HIS glory!